Here's a list of resources that I've found to be VERY helpful.  I'll be adding to this as time goes on and I encounter more!

RomanceU: Dedicated to helping writers establish and advance their careers, introducing readers to a variety of authors, and delving into the ever-inscrutable male mind...oh, and it's SO much more than that!
1,000 Words To Write By:  All the writing advice in the world can't replace good tools and lots of practice.Plus, there's more cool stuff on this site!

 MyWritersCircle: A friendly online writing community, open to everyone!  This one's already done wonders for me!

Fiction GroupieWriting...Reading...Learning. Every Day. Hoping for Publication.  An awesome blog from a writer who's much further along than I am.